Hi guys! Let’s just get the basics out of the way.
I was driving in my car the other day, rattling my brain about what to write about.
I was first drawn to Summer’s blog because she opened up about an issue that I still, to this day, find very hard to do myself: body image.
I’m gonna make an ass out of you and me and assume that the majority of Summer’s readers are women.
Now, don’t go thinking this is a “woe is me” post, because it’s not.
I’ve always been aware of my weight.
That’s not to say that I was constantly down on myself growing up.
Then college came around.
That thing was, I never once stopped eating.
My sister will tell you to this day that I looked sickly, I will tell you to this day that I disagree.
That was in college, about 3 years ago.
Like I said, this is a topic that, aside from my family, I never discuss.
In other news, thank you so much for reading, thank you Summer for letting me take over your fab blog for today. And hey, anyone and everyone…come over and say hello!
All my love, A
Ali! You did a great job. This is something that I think every woman has or is struggling with to some degree, and I think that we all feel we are alone, but we’re not. I’m really glad you have found a healthy balance for yourself. 🙂
I LOVE this post…
I love your honesty and NOTHING is too heavy for a Tuesday right?! Right!!!
Great post. I agree, God gave you that body for a reason keep it strong and running for him!
I looove this post too! Ali, you are a beautiful and gifted writer and I could tell this really came from your heart. Bravo. I also struggle with my body and trying to stay and or get thin. I am not entirely focused on it, but I should say it is hard to stay fit and lose weight. I need to be better about eating in moderation and taking care of my body, it is a continuous effort. Thanks for your vulnerability, xoxo.
whoa ali…that was a serious post but i loved reading this side of you.
as an outsider and avid reader of your blog, i think you’re perfect just the way you are. we are definitely our own worst enemy. i know i am mine. but as i’ve gotten older, i’ve learned to appreciate the way i am….short and all.
great post on a great blog.
ps. hi summer!
Oh Ali, I just love this post. Kudos to you for being open! And yes, we do all deal with this to some extent. It took me a little longer than you to get to the point where I accept (and some days love) my body just the way it is.
And from someone who got to check you out IRL, you are one BEAUTIFUL little lady and don’t you forget it!
My favorite quote: “God gave me the body he did for a reason. My job is to keep it healthy, strong and remind it that it’s beautiful.”
I’ll keep that tucked away for the days I need that reminder 🙂 Love you! XOXO
Way to go, Ali. Even though it makes me sad to know you’ve struggled, I’m proud of you for working hard to overcome it. I think you’re an amazing lady, but you already know that. Love you, girl!
Ali, what a beautifully honest and well-written post. You are brave to come out about your past body insecurities. I know I certainly struggled with it when I was a pre-teen. I’m happy to hear you’ve overcome it and enjoy working out! 🙂
Loved this post! I could not agree more with you about everything :)I’ve been struggling with my weight since I started college about 7 years ago and right now I am trying to get back on the right track.
I’ve done the crash diets, the diet pills, the excessive exercise and not eating but now I am past that. I’ve found something that works for me and I’m finally going to stick with it!
I love that I have found amazing bloggers who have gone through the same thing and they are willing to talk about it.
Thanks for sharing something so personal with us… I’d never have guessed from what I gather from your blog! I love what you said… “Here’s my theory: God gave me the body he did for a reason. My job is to keep it healthy, strong and remind it that it’s beautiful. He gave this particular body to me and me alone.” I love love love it!
Ali, like other commenters said, I would have never guessed this about you. You are just bursting with confidence and positivity. Thank you for being so honest. I think it’s proof that none of us are immune to the pressures of society and friends. You are BEAUTIFUL! Please know that.
I think more of us can probably relate to this post than not!