Archives for April 2012
why tv is kind of amazing for kids
alone with my thoughts, unedited
Thoughts are swirling around inside my mind, jumbled thoughts and images and memories, and I know I need to give them God.
And I did, a little.
But sometimes I express myself better to God not in thoughts or spoken prayers…but in words. In writing. When I just let go and write, out comes the truth of my soul.
So, here I sit alone in my living room with nothing but the glow of my laptop and hum of the kitchen….doing something I rarely do….
There is no direction, no idea what I will share or how it will end.
No lesson to teach, more so just hopes that a lesson will be learned.
That through my writing, God will show up and make sense of the thoughts that are keeping me awake.
I think about Taylor…and how he’s almost 7. And I don’t know why suddenly 7 seems so significant, but I am amazed at how it really did pass in a blink of an eye.
Four years that I’ve been writing here on Le Musings of Moi.
And it’s grown…a little.
And there have been opportunities….plenty.
And I cherish the growth and the opportunities and I even put them all into a folder called encouragement…
But, when I compare this place to others that started when I did, or even to newer blogs with more success (and i know i shouldn’t….), I feel as though I can’t keep up.
And I wonder…
If something is good, isn’t there growth?
And if there isn’t, is it time to let it go?
And then I’m back to thinking about where God has me now.
I feel a shift happening…a change.
A stirring.
I remember back to just days ago when we were planting and sweeping and preparing for spring, and I was overwhelmed with a feeling that things were soon to be different.
And sitting here now, I wonder….what was that feeling?
It settled me then, but it confuses me now.
And in and out of all those concrete thoughts are moments of sadness for the people I know and know of that are hurting, and struggling, and probably up tonight as well with swirling thoughts of their own.
you are never "too much" for a true friend
{a little mush mush, i know.}
They are my forever friends…and I don’t doubt that for a moment.
It’s not to say they weren’t necessarily good people….they just didn’t or couldn’t understand.
Or they just happened not to be right for me, for my life….or perhaps vice versa.
and finally I feel comforted, protected, loved and UNDERSTOOD….
and it’s feels incredible.
why breastfeeding can just suck it
what no one told me about my 20’s
suffer to bless
A testimony.
A scripture.
A devotion.
A confession.
Promise of prayers…..
Whatever it was, I hope you know it was a HUG FROM GOD right when I needed it.
I have to share.
God’s made that much clear to me….
And I will continue to share because of YOU.
Because I know that by exposing our lives (good, bad, and ugly) and by just being REAL about it….hopefully more of us will feel less alone.
God created me this way.
Deep feeling, emotional, empathic, emotional (it deserves to be said twice), sensitive, and yes…
“a whole lotta….”
But, in all that….there is still less of Him and more of me.
And in order to grow and to be strong, I believe there is an amount of suffering.
{the story of the butterfly}
Please know….
I’ll just cry with you.
And He did it to give us hope…
Happy Easter…
xoxo
jimmy & the hunger games
I read all three books last year in like a minute.
Maybe two, because that last one took me a bit.
“He proved that he loved and valued Katniss more then he loved and valued his own life.”
And then he squeezed me close, and I think in his mind for a bit, we were actually Katniss and Peeta walking back to the car.
{why does that happen to guys when they watch a movie??? after it’s over they start thinking they’re actually the lead action guy….does your guy do that too?}
Either way….it’s sweet.
And in real life….he’s better than Peeta and Gale put together.
Awe, shucks….
Now who’s sweet???
Maybe I am just like Katniss….
the good, the bad, the "oh no i’m ugly" side of motherhood
Now my closet consists of Old Navy tanks, which I buy every year in multiples, and one or two pairs of sweats that my poor husband has to see me in practically every day.
(Does it count that they’re Juicy?)
I comfort myself with the idea that at least I’m being environmentally conscious.
The tanks get recycled every year, with the somewhat stained ones going into the workout drawer, and the really stained ones going into the sleepwear drawer. And that’s not just me.
Almost all the time.
My bras and underwear matched, and in fact I didn’t even know that they had underwear that covered the butt way back then.
I showered and washed my hair every morning, and even took the appropriate hour to blow dry and style.
I loved makeup, and I never left the house without eyeliner.
But in several colors, you know, to throw people off. I like to make them think I’m wearing something new.
I also have fifteen Hanes tank tops for men that, of course, I wear sans the bra.
Daily.
(I should mention boobs are a whole other subject, and yes, there will come a day that a bra won’t help keep them perky, so you kind of give up a little. Just me?)
Then, right next to those are the twenty pairs of full-coverage underwear (okay, okay….maternity undies) that I could never go a night without sleeping in.
(I have one lucky husband!)
Half my closet admits that, yes, I am indeed a mom of two, but the other half is sure that any day a massive wave of social events will hit my life.
On that side are dressy jeans, high-heeled boots, and sassy stylin’ tops.
Everything on that side was purchased on one of those days when I just felt that I couldn’t take another day of sweats even if my life depended on it.
With a wild hair up my butt, I’d leave the kids with my man, and then I stop, drop, and roll off to the mall.
I then fill my arms with the trendy high-fashion items I’ve been drooling over in the magazines, and I spend hours in the dressing room savoring every moment in the to-die-for outfits.
We know.
But don’t pretend you don’t know exactly what we’re talking about.
Because no matter how hard you try, there will always be something a little off:
Dark circles you can’t hide. Spit-up on your shirt that you thought you had blotted out.
Three-day-old hair.
{which is healthy for your hair, btw! just sayin’!}
Stretch marks, despite the fact that you spent hours rubbing expensive “miracle” coco butter all over your stomach.
So you resort to ordering hoodies online because-who are you kidding?-you don’t have any place to wear that cute top anyway.
And instead of spending an hour blow-drying and expertly putting on makeup, you let your hair air-dry in the car and hope you hit the stoplights just right so you can put on a few swipes of mascara.
It just creeps up on you until one day you find yourself staring at the cute girl in the grocery store who obviously just got off work.
The cute girl that, just five years ago, was you.
(a group of our mom friends in our neighborhood)
Even after hitting the gym.
To clarify: These are not your mousy, stamp-party moms.
These are cute, stylish, hottie moms.
The kind of moms that got “Most Beautiful Eyes” in high school, were the president of their sorority, and had all the guys drooling after them.
Then someone comes up to you and says, “Wow, you look great! I almost didn’t recognize you. Did you change your hair?”
Take for example, the birthday party I (Summer) went to last weekend.
I thought I had my stuff together.
I showered, washed my hair, and I even brushed my teeth all before noon!
I had on cute jeans, a new ruffled tank top, and pointy-toed flats.
I was cool; I was hip.
I was not going to be the mom that let herself go.
A big sign that was going to force me to show that I, indeed, did not have it all together.
That sign said, “Please Remove Your Shoes.”
Everyone was going to find me out.
So I did what any normal person would.
I pretended I didn’t see the sign and walked in with my shoes.
At which point the hostess said, “Hey, Summer, can you please take off your shoes?”
So I took the walk of shame back to the hallway, discarded my shoes, and tried to keep my toes curled under all during the party.
Fortunately, there is a light at the end of this sad and ugly tunnel.