…the lesson

It was just a moment. A quick uncomfortable moment.
I am so thankful for my husband, for I am never alone in any of this when I experience such things. He sat with me, held me, prayed for me, and talked me through it.
What he helped me learn…I am great in stress. I am focused, I get the job done, I stay strong. It’s when it’s all over with, when all is calm, and things are returning to normal and I begin to unwind and relax…that’s when the moments come.
I have to learn for the next time, that in the midst of the chaos to take time to relax. To breathe. To unwind. To feel.
And then perhaps, when it’s all over, there will be nothing pent up that needs to expel itself.
Tearfully uncomfortable is never a welcomed emotion. But, if it brings clarity for my life, then I welcome it.
Just not again anytime soon.
I have enough clarity for this year.
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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Comments

  1. So glad you have a wonderful person to be there with you and help you through it.

  2. Sounds a lot like me. It’s like I can’t even stop to think about what’s happening until it’s over, and then I loose it.

  3. Aw Summer, you are lucky to have someone right by your side to help you through the mucky parts. God bless you both!

  4. I’m glad you have your soul-mate.

  5. You know, I know this love and tears of which you speak. I have been there. I also know the peace and joy of having a wonderful partner to help you through it.

  6. Having someone who loves you like he does by your side makes these types of times bearable. I’ve had them too and you just need to ride them out and then go on.

  7. Thinking of you. Praying for less tears and more comfort. Always here.

  8. He’s such a catch, isn’t he? 🙂 So glad he helped you through it, and my goodness you’ve got some good insight, Summer.