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um, seriously….

Anybody else out there getting a PLETHORA of spam comments???
Um, seriously….it’s kinda outta control. And I’m kinda getting annoyed.
How do I make this craziness stop?
In other news….I’m just about to head out to get my roots attended to.
Oh, and as long as I get permission from my hair girl, I’ll be getting bangs.
{Tired of hearing about that? I am.}
Hopefully I won’t leave crying.
If I do, I’ll just come home and watch The Office again, because this weeks episode was awesome.
That’s it.
Just some random Saturday thoughts.
Oh, and did you see Chic Shoppers website??? If not, go check it out, and make sure to follow!
Please.
P.S. My birthday countdown is ON! 31 in a week an a half, aw ya!
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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fashion friday

Cardigan: TJ Maxx

I have cardigan fever….I’m obsessed. I’m now on the search for a black one with a hood.
Need like now!

Tee: F21

Jeans: Sevens, Dojo Style {Plato’s Closet Resale}

Shoes: DKNY {Loehmans}

Can I just tell you? Betsy found these shoes and was going to take them back, and I was like nuh uh woman!!! Get this deal…originally $115, I spent $37.50. And the wedge and straps are patent!!! Could you die? I could.

Necklace: F21

Purse: mark.com

Hat: F21

I’m also a little OOC {out of control} when it comes to fedoras lately. I bought two this last week, and am instantly hooked. I’m loving the feminine detail of the ribbon around it, which makes it just that much more yummy.
I warned you that you would see plenty of hats until my hair appointment which is this Saturday!!!
Yay!!!
I’m so getting bangs.
Wish me luck!
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Okay, now onto the BIG NEWS!!!
Chic Shoppers has gone live!!!
Our Fashion/Image Consulting Business is off and running, and we have the website to prove it!
I would be honored and downright giddy if you went on over and followed, grabbed the button, and generally became as much as a fan of it as possible.
That’s not asking too much, right???
I’m so proud of our little baby, and I’m excited to finally be able to reach the whole wide world with our fashion help!
So, go on now….go. Let me know what you think!!!
Muah!
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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13 going on 30

Um, ya right. Or….SIKE! Or was it psyche?
Either way….I was so not that mature!
{I did know how to work the camera though…And this was BEFORE Tyra!}
Okay, so one of the options of Writers Workshop today was to share a diary entry from when you were 13…
Excitedly I pulled them out from my diary chest, and took some time reading through the year of being 13.
And….OH. MY. WORD.
Seriously???
Shoot me if I ever have to be 13 again!!!
{Or shoot me if I ever match my red shirt to my red glasses again!}
The freaking drama, hormones, emotions, and woah holy mean girls! At one point, I wrote…”I think I’m going to go on a diet, because that must be why nobody likes me….I’m just too ugly and fat.”
{I have to admit though, I did have style…}
Practically every other page was about who was going out with who, who broke up with who, and who was going to ask who out.
I also seemed to keep track of who I kinda liked, who I really liked, and who I really loved unconditionally. {Um, yes, I really wrote that!} And trust me, there was a boys name for each of those categories. And the boys names changed weekly. I think I crushed (or was ‘sprung’ as was the term back then) on every boy in my school by the time I turned 14.
Examples:
I *heart* Todd? {And yes, I did put a question mark.}
I *heart* Rick 4-ever! {Still trying to remember who Rick was….}
Summer + Matt = True Love…. {That one lasted a month.}
You get the idea.
On the pages I wasn’t writing about boys and ‘going out,’ I was word for word writing out the things the mean girls at school would say to me.
But throughout the whole year of my 13’s….there was this one entry that kept haunting me….mostly because I kept thinking how my heart would break if I ever knew my own kids were to be feeling that way one day.
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Well, I’m very depressed.
I wish someone in my family would tell me that I’m special and name some good qualities about me so I feel like I’m an okay person.
I know there has to be some good in me. I’m not an all bad person. Just because I’m not Malia, I’m not special. Malia does everything perfect and I don’t work as hard as her, and I’m not as pretty as her, and I’m not as popular as her, and I could go on and on.
I feel so worthless. I know God loves me, and thinks I’m special, so why can’t I understand that and be happy?
I just don’t feel like I fit in. I’m not funny or as fun to be with as Malia and Heather are. I’m just plain old boring Summer.
It seems like nobody cares. I mean what the heck is wrong with me?
Why can’t my family love me and show it? Why can’t they make me feel special and show me that I have some important talents.
Am I really that bad a person that my family doesn’t want me around? They always tell me to live with my dad, but when I think about it my mom tries to talk me out of it.
I wish God would just take me to heaven so I can be with someone who loves me.
I don’t think anyone will ever really love me for who I am.
I’m so tired of trying to be someone I’m not just so people will accept me.
Deep down I know I’m special, so why can’t my heart catch on?
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Depressing much?
To be fair though….my mom was waiting on the divorce from my dad to be final any day around the time I wrote that, so there was a lot of drama and emotions going round a house full of girls.
I had also just recently started my very first period. Good to know, right?
Annnnd, and this may come as a surprise to most, at that age….I tended to the more “dramatic” side of things.
Only at that age though….um, certainly not now. I am most certainly NOT dramatic now.
Ahem.
I guess that’s the good thing about keeping my journals. I will never forget what it’s like to be at any age. I will always be able to go back and learn from my past. And hopefully all that pain and confusion I felt will better serve me as a parent to my own kids….
And to end this ever so uplifting blog post (what did you expect from a 13 year olds diary?) I think what we can learn here is:
  1. Being 13 is not fun.
  2. As parents be sure to always, always, always….no matter what, make your child know they are loved, that they are special, and never ever let them forget what makes them that way.
  3. Read your 13 year olds diary. Daily.
Whew, that’s enough serious for this week.
Thank goodness tomorrow’s Fashion Friday…
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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cereal, reality tv, and other happy thoughts

I’m feeling a little blue since my sisters left….I just can’t help but feel a tad lonely without my them.
But, rather than mope…I’m gonna try to stay focused on the little things that make me happy.
Those minute moments that make me smile…
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~like a bowl of Honeycombs
~an episode of Tori & Dean, Rachel Zoe, The Hills, Project Runway {enter any reality tv show here and you get the picture}
~a really well written funny book
~thrift store shopping
{Can’t wait to show the deals from this weekend!!! BCBG anyone?!?}
~my babies smiles when they wake up from a nap
~nap time
~your incredibly encouraging and hilarious and ever so loving comments
{My air.}
~long hugs from my man that aren’t because he wants some later
{Can I get a what, what?!?}
~calls from family, well from my side of the family anyway
~getting my hair done
{this weekend!!!! Will there be bangs?}
~buying 3 pairs of sunglasses for $20
{Designer knockoffs by the beach. Love.}
~a cozy n comfy fluffy white bed
{wanna stay all day.}
~my best girlfriends
~daydreams of my sisters moving to SoCal….
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That helped….a little.
I still miss my sisters though.
Anyway, now that they’ve left me, I have all this free time again and I’ll be back to writing and reading all of my favorite blogs….Hopefully I’ll be all caught up by the weekend….
I’ve missed you.
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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just. be. silent.

It’s been awhile since I just sat down to write.
To just write and not think beforehand.
To not wonder first if people will listen. If they will get it. If they care.
I always think first.
At least now I do.
Sometimes after many many mistakes, people tend to swing really far in the other direction.
I must have done that.
But it’s my safety. It will keep me safe. At least that’s what I tell myself.
And yet, there is always this gnawing feeling that tells me to just sit.
Get rid of the noise. Light some candles. And just. be. silent.
That slight ache in my heart, soul, mind….wherever it may be at any moment in time….it continually beckons me to stop.
Stop thinking.
And just be.
Breathe.
Listen.
It’s in these moments…that I hear Him.
That He can speak to me.
And my wall crumbles….
so tonight, I hear You.
The thoughts of my mind are still, and instead my heart is open…
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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monday muse fashion post

Today’s Monday Muse features my most fabulous and amazingly hot sisters from our big night out Satty night.
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First up, we have Heather, the oldest of the four….
{Check out the fashionable way she was able to wear black with brown, and do you see? Those fab leopard knee highs? Girl is working it!}
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Next up, Malia….who has been lucky enough to be in the middle with me….
{Clad in adorable tunic, a cardigan that I’ve been lusting after, leggings, short boots, and one of the best statement rings I have ever laid eyes on! Can she be any cuter? No, I don’t think so.}
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And then there’s my little sister, Brittany.
{Working the cozy look, yet still managing to be completely stylish and chic. Loving the socks and boots with the skinnies.}
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Together we all caused quite a stir.
{What?!? People never seen 4 sisters before?!?!?}
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And then, of course, we had our very own personal bodyguards….
{a.k.a husbands, rocking the tee shirt look…}
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It has seriously been so much fun having all my sisters and me….cuz….we are fam-i-ly.
{Did I get you singing?}
And I think my heart may break ever so slightly when two of the three leave me tomorrow….
{my youngest lives about 30 minutes away, although sometimes it feels like its another state away!}
We spent much of the time trying to decide upon a state/city that we are all willing to move to so we can all be together again…Ideas anyone?
Well, we’re off for more shopping. Gotta get my Fashion Friday look complete!!!
Hope your Monday doesn’t suck too bad!
Muah!
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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sneak peek

We are DAYS away from being able to reveal our Chic Shoppers website and seriously, our web designer has outdone herself….
Since I’m so freaking excited….I’m going to show you a little sneak peek:
I know, it’s a tease….but trust me, it’s definitely worth the wait!
Thanks again for all your love and support with this business, I couldn’t have done it without a single one of you!!!
Muah my loves!
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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fashion friday


Dress: Sam & Max {Plato’s Closet Resale}
Jacket: French Connection {thrifted}
Tights: {Costco} totally the best tights ever!!!
OTK Boots: {Charlotte Russe} Also seen here worn folded down.
Ring: {Charlotte Russe}
Bracelets: {F21} {Twisted Silver}
Necklaces: {thrifted} {F21}
Purse: {from a little shop in Pacific Beach}
I really wanted to add color to this dress with a necklace or bracelet…or scarf, but nothing I had seemed quite right….so I settled for the purse….and while good, it still wasn’t good enough….oh well.
But at least I had the boots!
I’m telling you guys, I am so into the over the knee boots (OTK) right now, and I was super excited to have a HurryDate event tonight so I could finally sport them unfolded! I tried to bring the sexy down by pairing them with opaque tights and a black blazer….didn’t want to be too Pretty Woman-ish….not quite the look I was going for tonight.
Or, um, ever.
{A little fashion advice….not a look you should go for either.}
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Can I just tell you, today I was in the worst mood! This time it was lil mama who feeling funky.
I mean, I knew on Monday when I was ravished and hungry and no amount of food could satiate me….that ‘you know what’ was right around the corner. And then today’s mood further confirmed my suspisions.
It didn’t much help that I’ve had two nights of little sleep.
Or that I lost three followers this week. I mean, did they catch on to my PMS too and just run as fast as they could in the opposite direction?
Was I not cute enough?
Smart enough?
Funny enough???
What??!?!?
Why did they just….sob sob…leave?
Or maybe this funk has something to do with the fact that I’m aching and hurting for a friend…seriously, I feel as though I’m the one with the pain.
My tears don’t know the difference.
At least my sisters are flying in tomorrow, and I’m pretty sure the only other cure to PMS and an achy {breaky} heart, besides chocolate, are my sisters.
It will be so. much. fun.
Dueling Piano Bars, Thrift Stores, In-n-Out, F21, Anthro, Wings n Things, Charlotte Russe, P.B. Shoppes….all just a snippet of our four days together.
Also, even though a few may have left me {my blog, whatev, same diff}….
I have to say, you guys and your sweet emails and comments….oh my WORD….how do I find the words?
Every single day I smile, every single day I laugh, every single day I am encouraged….
and all because of your sweet words.
Ahhhh, I’m starting to feel better already.
Lost followers what?
{sob sob}
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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put your hands up!

***still taking care of my sick baby, so the hilarious post I had hoped for isn’t up to par, but still….I didn’t want to leave you hanging about my sisters luck….***
I have a sister who things happen to. Always. The things just always happen to her. And I have to say, I kinda love it. Because all of those things make me laugh over and over years and years later.
{note she’s wearing a statement ring….the girls got good fashion taste!}
Like the time she was running through a two story mall, on the ground floor, when her shoe flew off sending her to catapult forward and fall flat on her face. As she lay there, she put up her hands to shoo the crowd and called out, “It’s alright, I’m okay…I’m okay.” Yet when she looked up, nobody had stopped long enough to see if she actually was okay. Not to mention people were walking by kicking her shoe this way and that.
Did I mention it was a HUGE mall on a busy Saturday?
Or the time she was running down the hill to greet her friends at a bonfire, yelling, “I’m here, I’m here!”….and then proceeded to slide down the hill on her bootie.
I’m laughing even as I type this. The vision of it all…OMG, makes me LOL!
But the following story is seriously the craziest so far….and what’s crazy is that of course it would happen to her.
I’m telling you….things just happen. To her.
So, Heather and her best friend have a staging business where they go into homes for sale, and redecorate them so that they are able to sell better and hopefully more quickly.
On this particular job in this story, they landed a model home where they got to work with a blank slate. So, needless to say, they were very excited.
As they were finishing up the job, it was about midnight. And when they got to the car and started to hook up the trailer, they realized that the lights weren’t working on it and they couldn’t drive on the road without lights.
So after banging and kicking and laughing and I’m sure some cussing, they decided to head to the grocery store to buy some locks so they could just leave it and get it in the morning.
Only when they got to the store, the only thing available were the combo locks we used in High School. But, I guess in the middle of the night, it seemed like a good idea. So they bought two.
Once they locked up the front and the back, they each headed to their own cars and started to head home.
It was around 2am.
As my sister was driving down the road, with her best friend behind her….suddenly a million (or so) cop cars came out of nowhere and surrounded the two of them.
Immediately they began yelling at them to stay in their cars….and then informed them they had received reports that they were breaking into one of the condo’s. My sister tried to explain that they were Home Stagers and that they were moving stuff INTO the condo and not out of it.
To which the cop huffed back, “Ha! More like Home Stealers, not Home Stagers!”
{good one guy, good one!}
He asked for paperwork or proof, to which my sister had nothing but a realtors card, and as she was still trying to explain herself, the cop started shining his flashlight into the back of her car….seeing the fake staging plasmas, he raised his eyebrows at her.
Finally after more going back and forth between her and her friend, they decided to let them go….
What really makes it crazy….the next day when they came back to get their trailer?
It was gone.
{Combo locks are apparently only good for lockers…whoodathunk?}
And then 3-4 months later, the condo they staged was robbed and all their furniture was cleaned out.
I know, crrrrazy!
In fact, now that I think of it, I should start a monthly post called Heather’s Stories.
Anyway….not my best story telling, but you get the idea. And hopefully it’s better than pictures of a sick baby.
I’ll be back in all my glory tomorrow for Fashion Friday!
© 2009 “Le Musings of Moi”
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where’s the funny???

I had big plans for todays post….
I was going to link up for Writers Workshop with this hilariously true story that happened to my sister….and then pretend it actually happened to me…And it was gonna be SO FUNNY! Seriously, you were going to laugh really hard.
Maybe even pee a little.
And then, Chloe got sick. Or rather, she’s been sick, but she chooses 10pm at night to really let us know how she feels about it. Last night….and then again tonight.
So, that’s been fun and heartbreaking all at once.
Needless to say, it’s kinda hard to be funny let alone finish a make you pee in your pants post when you are up holding a crying baby every five minutes.
In fact….
I’ll just show you a snapshot of my night, because I’m a blogger (I say it loud and proud) and I take pictures when my baby is sick.
Don’t judge. I do it for you!
{Always for you.}
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{What I found upon entering the room of my crying baby girl}
{And when the blanket was removed…}
{And after seeing the camera, she mustered up a smile. She is my daughter after all.}
{Smiling through the pain.}
{Calm and content, yet still sick….}
I know, sad, huh?
Anyway, that answers the question of where the funny went.
I’ll tell you my sisters story another time.
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