three things: entitlement

Today Pastor Mike talked about entitlement.
The three things that stood out most were:
1. Phillipians 2:14-16 Do everything without complaining or arguing… (or whining, I added!)
2.) Why do I whine, or complain, when things go wrong or I experience hardship in life? Is it because I feel like I don’t deserve what I’m going through? But in all actuality, we all go through tough times. What makes me so above all of that? When I complain, I am hurting the heart of God.

3.) Two quotes:

“Grace is so often found in the thunder of my tears crashing upon the pavement of my life”“God can hardly use a man greatly until he has hurt him deeply.” A.W. Tozer

My thoughts:
This message really struck a chord in me, because it’s been just about a year since overcoming a really tough time in my life. I wrote a little about it here, but didn’t really expound upon just how hard it was for me.
For the first time in my life, I experienced anxiety like I had never known it before. It was debilitating. I couldn’t sleep, I couldn’t eat and I was losing weight rapidly. I couldn’t even cry. I didn’t want to talk to anyone or see anyone, because I was so embarrassed at what I was dealing with. I wasn’t myself at all. The anxiety took away every single part of me that I liked. And I hated that.
Every second, minute, and hour was a struggle. I would go to bed early in hopes that when I would wake up, I would be completely normal again.
It was honestly the hardest time of my life. But, now a year later, I can actually look back on it and feel safe. I feel secure. I know it could happen again, but when I read all that I wrote in my journal during that time, I see that I made it through and I am stronger and wiser for having experienced it.
I went back in my emails tonight to read some of what I had shared with a woman who was mentoring me through it at the time. This is the first I’ve been able to read through those emails without feeling anything negative. Before, just thinking about reading them would have made me feel uneasy and scared.
As I was reading, I was completely stunned when I saw that I had written her the following right in the middle of the hardest part:
I was awake all night long unable to sleep, and I just read my bible and prayed the entire time. Even though this is absolutely the hardest time in my life, I have had the sweetest moments with the Lord. More than I ever have had in my life. I’m frustrated, angry, sad, and tired….but I still know God is with me. My faith has not been shaken.
I don’t know why, but somehow, I made it through those awful months never asking “why me?” I think I was too afraid to complain, more than it was me trying to do the right thing. All I knew is I wanted it to be over, and I wanted to learn the lesson He had for me so life could continue.
It was a long road, but I slowly made my way out. I’m not sure why He had me experience all that I did, but I don’t for one minute wish I hadn’t been there. I learned a lot. I was humbled. I was broken and brought to a place of nothingness, and I clung to God every single minute of the battle.
All that to say, this message was just a reminder to me. To never forget what I went through. To never let go of the lessons I learned. To never think I am better than anyone else in that I should not have to endure emotional or physical pain.
But, to remember that He gives enough for today to get us through till tomorrow. And He promises…
Wa la. My lengthy three things.
© 2008 “Le Musings of Moi”
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Comments

  1. ive learned that growth is always painful and that which does not kill us makes us strong. and you are right, of course…it is when we feel the darkest, we are most apt to See the Light.

  2. Annie just said it all. I’m glad you’re not in the “dark” any longer.

  3. Happy Birthday sweetie 🙂

  4. That’s beautiful. It’s so important to have faith through times like these. I’m sure you feel like a stronger person now.

  5. Wow! What a great and inspiring post. It’s great that you are sharing your experience with other people and how your faith has helped you make it through.

  6. It is a rule of the universe: we must experience the bad to appreciate the good. I’m glad you are in a “good” place right now!

  7. God is just so amazing. I’ve heard it said before that God does his best work in the dark…in Creation, in the Garden of Gasthename (sp?) and in our own ‘dark night of the soul’. Thanks so much for sharing.

  8. You’re pretty.

  9. Beautiful post- so glad you’re able to look back on such a tough time and see how God has used that in your life. Very encouraging and inspiring!!!